There are some people out there that are somewhat uncomfortable dealing with COMMITMENT. Some people out there think that discussing such (or being in such situation) will end their freedom; they don’t like their comfort zone touched or even changed. Relationship is a two way stream, there will be ups and downs but it’s always important to give way and be understanding and broad minded in dealing with issues. There is definitely sacrifice that will come along and compromise is one way to ease up the tension. Relationship is an on-going course, you learn from each other and teach each other, even learn from other people’s experiences. It is not giving up your freedom but welcoming another being in your life, where two becomes one.