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	<description>Ongline Podcast documents the life of a gay Malaysian-born Chinese American. Immerse yourself in the life of a not-so-typical individual. Expand your horizon by experiencing the topics, issues, stories, and simply, the life of a gay Asian man. Until now, the voice of a minority individual has not been this loud!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #412 Oath Ceremony by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/05/06/ongline-412-oath-ceremony/comment-page-1/#comment-60966</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 01:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much!
It&#039;s final! As of today, offically American.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much!<br />
It&#8217;s final! As of today, offically American.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #412 Oath Ceremony by Spode</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/05/06/ongline-412-oath-ceremony/comment-page-1/#comment-60947</link>
		<dc:creator>Spode</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 14:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S ! ! !

[big grin]

-Spode</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S ! ! !</p>
<p>[big grin]</p>
<p>-Spode</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #411 Citizenship Approved by Phong Hong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/04/29/ongline-411-citizenship-approved/comment-page-1/#comment-60943</link>
		<dc:creator>Phong Hong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 06:29:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is interesting, John.  Congratulations!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #384 Little Red Dot Kitchen by A little bit of Bak Kwa (candied meat snacks) : Red Dot Kitchen Blog</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/04/28/ongline-384-little-red-dot-kitchen/comment-page-1/#comment-60936</link>
		<dc:creator>A little bit of Bak Kwa (candied meat snacks) : Red Dot Kitchen Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 07:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] learn more about our Bak Kwa love affair, you can listen to the recording here. John Ong is a Malaysian podcaster celebrity. Thank you John for the wonderful time!    Categories: [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] learn more about our Bak Kwa love affair, you can listen to the recording here. John Ong is a Malaysian podcaster celebrity. Thank you John for the wonderful time!    Categories: [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #409 Low Key Birthday by Kevin / Taugeh</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/04/08/ongline-409-low-key-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-60927</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin / Taugeh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 09:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, u cook the dish n take some picture n review ok?? :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, u cook the dish n take some picture n review ok?? <img src='http://onglinepodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #408 My Cooking Hut by Leemei</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/03/25/ongline-408-my-cooking-hut/comment-page-1/#comment-60922</link>
		<dc:creator>Leemei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 08:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two signed copies of my cookbook can be won now! http://www.mycookinghut.com/2012/03/31/lemongrass-ginger-vibrant-asian-recipes-cookbook-giveaways/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two signed copies of my cookbook can be won now! <a href="http://www.mycookinghut.com/2012/03/31/lemongrass-ginger-vibrant-asian-recipes-cookbook-giveaways/" rel="nofollow">http://www.mycookinghut.com/2012/03/31/lemongrass-ginger-vibrant-asian-recipes-cookbook-giveaways/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #408 My Cooking Hut by Leemei</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/03/25/ongline-408-my-cooking-hut/comment-page-1/#comment-60914</link>
		<dc:creator>Leemei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 09:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear John,
I just want to say thank you so much for having me on Ongline. It&#039;s been a great experience for me. I&#039;m glad to be able to share with you and your listeners about my new Asian cookbook!
After the recording, I realised I forgot to mention that there are 3 sections in my book that can come in handy. They are &#039;basic recipes&#039;, &#039;basic techniques&#039; and &#039;glossary&#039;. 
Basic recipes section tells you how to make stock, how to make perfect steamed rice, making spice pastes, etc that are used in the recipes in the book. Basic techniques section will guide you how to prepare prawns, squids etc. The glossary section contains a list of ingredients that you might not be familiar with.
I would be more than happy to receive feedback from those who buy my cookbook! Happy Cooking!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear John,<br />
I just want to say thank you so much for having me on Ongline. It&#8217;s been a great experience for me. I&#8217;m glad to be able to share with you and your listeners about my new Asian cookbook!<br />
After the recording, I realised I forgot to mention that there are 3 sections in my book that can come in handy. They are &#8216;basic recipes&#8217;, &#8216;basic techniques&#8217; and &#8216;glossary&#8217;.<br />
Basic recipes section tells you how to make stock, how to make perfect steamed rice, making spice pastes, etc that are used in the recipes in the book. Basic techniques section will guide you how to prepare prawns, squids etc. The glossary section contains a list of ingredients that you might not be familiar with.<br />
I would be more than happy to receive feedback from those who buy my cookbook! Happy Cooking!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #408 My Cooking Hut by OhChooBee</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/03/25/ongline-408-my-cooking-hut/comment-page-1/#comment-60912</link>
		<dc:creator>OhChooBee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 03:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A review on AMAZON CA 

5.0 out of 5 stars A book worth owning, Mar 18 2012
By Greg F. Sinicrope - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Lemongrass and Ginger Cookbook: Vibrant Asian Recipes (Hardcover)

I own lots of Asian and Indian cookbooks and &quot;Lemongrass and Ginger&quot; has quickly become one of my favorites. I say this because lots of cookbooks have recipes and photos that look great, but when you make the dishes, they are mediocre. Not so with Leemei&#039;s cookbook. She&#039;s really done her homework and has tested her recipes thoroughly for the home cook. Her focus is on authentic dishes, and this is admirable since authentic recipes have stood the test of time and deserve respect. Take, for example, her sour fish curry, a Sri Lankan dish. She uses the ingredients found in that region and the result is tremendous. The dish is balanced and has just the right level of heat and sweet-sour flavor. I used a little cinnamon in my version. The sauce over rice will blow you away.
Yes, this book is not another version of fast meals with three ingredients, thank God. On the contrary, here we have real respect for cuisines and the traditions and people who created the recipes over time. Who would want anything less?
One other recipe I love is Leemei&#039;s version of Cha Ca La Vong. I don&#039;t see this recipe in many Vietnamese cookbooks, so it&#039;s great Leemei includes it. You make a spice paste for the fish and the result is delicious -- not overpowering but just right. And the combination of noodles, spicy fish, basil, dill, chives, chopped peanuts, all with a sweet-sour-spicy sauce of nuoc cham makes for a great combination of textures and flavors.
So the book really delivers. Great job, Leemei!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A review on AMAZON CA </p>
<p>5.0 out of 5 stars A book worth owning, Mar 18 2012<br />
By Greg F. Sinicrope &#8211; Published on Amazon.com<br />
This review is from: Lemongrass and Ginger Cookbook: Vibrant Asian Recipes (Hardcover)</p>
<p>I own lots of Asian and Indian cookbooks and &#8220;Lemongrass and Ginger&#8221; has quickly become one of my favorites. I say this because lots of cookbooks have recipes and photos that look great, but when you make the dishes, they are mediocre. Not so with Leemei&#8217;s cookbook. She&#8217;s really done her homework and has tested her recipes thoroughly for the home cook. Her focus is on authentic dishes, and this is admirable since authentic recipes have stood the test of time and deserve respect. Take, for example, her sour fish curry, a Sri Lankan dish. She uses the ingredients found in that region and the result is tremendous. The dish is balanced and has just the right level of heat and sweet-sour flavor. I used a little cinnamon in my version. The sauce over rice will blow you away.<br />
Yes, this book is not another version of fast meals with three ingredients, thank God. On the contrary, here we have real respect for cuisines and the traditions and people who created the recipes over time. Who would want anything less?<br />
One other recipe I love is Leemei&#8217;s version of Cha Ca La Vong. I don&#8217;t see this recipe in many Vietnamese cookbooks, so it&#8217;s great Leemei includes it. You make a spice paste for the fish and the result is delicious &#8212; not overpowering but just right. And the combination of noodles, spicy fish, basil, dill, chives, chopped peanuts, all with a sweet-sour-spicy sauce of nuoc cham makes for a great combination of textures and flavors.<br />
So the book really delivers. Great job, Leemei!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #407 Civics Test &amp; Interview by Bak Kua</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/03/18/ongline-407-civics-test-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-60900</link>
		<dc:creator>Bak Kua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 08:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Listening to this show made me think about the time I had to give up my Msian citizenship.  We won&#039;t forget our roots!  I won&#039;t and can&#039;t forget Penang!  Giving up something does not mean we value it less.
Love your show! :-)
Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listening to this show made me think about the time I had to give up my Msian citizenship.  We won&#8217;t forget our roots!  I won&#8217;t and can&#8217;t forget Penang!  Giving up something does not mean we value it less.<br />
Love your show! <img src='http://onglinepodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #407 Civics Test &amp; Interview by Spode</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/03/18/ongline-407-civics-test-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-60898</link>
		<dc:creator>Spode</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 16:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>100 Senators, 435 Representatives.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #403 Queens Talk Movies by Phong Hong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/02/19/ongline-403-queens-talk-movies-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60889</link>
		<dc:creator>Phong Hong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Mar 2012 07:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Talking about scary movies, I think those made in the 60&#039;s and 70&#039;s were really good.  Check out The Changelling and Don&#039;t Be Afraid of the Dark.  I saw Don&#039;t Be Afraid of the Dark in the 70&#039;s when I was a kid and it really creeped me out.  For nostalgia&#039;s sake I watched it again recently and it still creeped me out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talking about scary movies, I think those made in the 60&#8242;s and 70&#8242;s were really good.  Check out The Changelling and Don&#8217;t Be Afraid of the Dark.  I saw Don&#8217;t Be Afraid of the Dark in the 70&#8242;s when I was a kid and it really creeped me out.  For nostalgia&#8217;s sake I watched it again recently and it still creeped me out.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #395 Knowing Cathy by Jenni</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/11/06/ongline-395-knowing-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60886</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 13:03:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well done Cathy and John, great podcasts.  Introducing and educating around the whole trans experience is surely helping people to understand and realise that we are people just like anyone else. Bravo! Hugz and Peace...x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well done Cathy and John, great podcasts.  Introducing and educating around the whole trans experience is surely helping people to understand and realise that we are people just like anyone else. Bravo! Hugz and Peace&#8230;x</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #402 What Makes You You by Patrick Plain</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/02/12/ongline-402-what-makes-you-you-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60873</link>
		<dc:creator>Patrick Plain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 14:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It really would be nice if we could have a pic of the Queens - hope they agree.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It really would be nice if we could have a pic of the Queens &#8211; hope they agree.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #402 What Makes You You by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/02/12/ongline-402-what-makes-you-you-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60871</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 17:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I presume they want to keep their anonymity. But I&#039;ll ask them. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I presume they want to keep their anonymity. But I&#8217;ll ask them. <img src='http://onglinepodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #402 What Makes You You by Brother Cinaedus</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/02/12/ongline-402-what-makes-you-you-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60870</link>
		<dc:creator>Brother Cinaedus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 17:13:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why aren&#039;t you posting any pictures of  the Queens? You post pictures of most your meals&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why aren&#8217;t you posting any pictures of  the Queens? You post pictures of most your meals&gt;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #398 $20 Plus Guilt by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/01/08/ongline-398-20-plus-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-60813</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 05:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #398 $20 Plus Guilt by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/01/08/ongline-398-20-plus-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-60812</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 05:04:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for listening. And I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for listening. And I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Santa! Fe! Merry Christmas by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/12/16/santa-fe-merry-christmas/comment-page-1/#comment-60811</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 05:03:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for your support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for your support.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #398 $20 Plus Guilt by pinoyboy</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/01/08/ongline-398-20-plus-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-60809</link>
		<dc:creator>pinoyboy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 19:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey you rich bitch, I can carry your guilt for $20. Gimmie gimmie gimmie gimmie!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey you rich bitch, I can carry your guilt for $20. Gimmie gimmie gimmie gimmie!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #398 $20 Plus Guilt by DannLeong, the grasshopper in PGHK</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2012/01/08/ongline-398-20-plus-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-60804</link>
		<dc:creator>DannLeong, the grasshopper in PGHK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 08:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,
This particular podcast had been very informative, corresponding to the gay topic and the burden of those young gay friends out that who is currently suffering in silence. I enjoyed listening to it. Keep it up. Cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,<br />
This particular podcast had been very informative, corresponding to the gay topic and the burden of those young gay friends out that who is currently suffering in silence. I enjoyed listening to it. Keep it up. Cheers!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Santa! Fe! Merry Christmas by Mike</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/12/16/santa-fe-merry-christmas/comment-page-1/#comment-60782</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 18:14:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear John, I have been listening to you off and on from your early days in podcasting.  I remember you created the first podcast taken while you were showering! I remember how you reworked Wanda Wisdom&#039;s theme song. It&#039;s been atleast 5 years since I last wrote you. I think you were going to celebrate the Holidays in the Outer Banks of North Carolina.  I guess the reason that I am writing you is because of the admiration and respect I have for you, personally, and, your longterm relationship with your partner, Bruce.  When I listen to your voice, it calms me and puts me in a place where I can think.  
  Around a year ago, I met someone who is special in my life.  We now live together and love each other.  Our lives are pretty good, we are indeed &quot;out&quot; in our community.  We are accepted by everyone which I am still always amazed at.  I think our acceptance comes from being very secure in who and what we are.  The million dollar question is how do young people obtain that security.  The best source would probably be from their parents, but, as we are all aware of, parents don&#039;t always approve of being gay.  What then?  It is my opinion that YOUR podcast can also provide young people with confidence and security, by just knowing that there are some pretty cool gay people out here who have overcome the ridicule and bullying and have gone on to have a pretty good life.  Bullying is a pretty hot topic now.  I would tell a young person that if they have NO OTHER person to talk to about being victimized by bullies in school, then to simply write a letter to the editor of their local newspaper complaining about the bullying and how it is permitted to occur.  Maybe a reporter could then intervene and interview school officials and pressure them to take forward action to prohibit this kind of destructive behavior.  I would hope that SAME young person would send you a copy of the letter addressed to the editor and have YOU read this letter on your show, maybe identifying the school so that your audience can step in and apply pressure to the school officials.  Why am I for singling out the school?  Because it is MUCH easier to approach a public school dependent on tax revenue from the public than it is to educate stoopid parents who allow bullying to occur within their own home.   
  John, I hope it isnt another 5 years before I write to you again, but I wanted to tell you that I am so grateful that you are still producing your shows.  I am going to figure out how to contribute to your show by using the link you have on your site.  I&#039;ve never done it before so we&#039;ll see if an old guy (52 years old) can figure it out.  I wish you and Bruce many more years of happiness...Do you still have a cat named Chai (like the tea)?  I remember he wasnt doing so good around 5 years ago.  Your friend, Mike</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear John, I have been listening to you off and on from your early days in podcasting.  I remember you created the first podcast taken while you were showering! I remember how you reworked Wanda Wisdom&#8217;s theme song. It&#8217;s been atleast 5 years since I last wrote you. I think you were going to celebrate the Holidays in the Outer Banks of North Carolina.  I guess the reason that I am writing you is because of the admiration and respect I have for you, personally, and, your longterm relationship with your partner, Bruce.  When I listen to your voice, it calms me and puts me in a place where I can think.<br />
  Around a year ago, I met someone who is special in my life.  We now live together and love each other.  Our lives are pretty good, we are indeed &#8220;out&#8221; in our community.  We are accepted by everyone which I am still always amazed at.  I think our acceptance comes from being very secure in who and what we are.  The million dollar question is how do young people obtain that security.  The best source would probably be from their parents, but, as we are all aware of, parents don&#8217;t always approve of being gay.  What then?  It is my opinion that YOUR podcast can also provide young people with confidence and security, by just knowing that there are some pretty cool gay people out here who have overcome the ridicule and bullying and have gone on to have a pretty good life.  Bullying is a pretty hot topic now.  I would tell a young person that if they have NO OTHER person to talk to about being victimized by bullies in school, then to simply write a letter to the editor of their local newspaper complaining about the bullying and how it is permitted to occur.  Maybe a reporter could then intervene and interview school officials and pressure them to take forward action to prohibit this kind of destructive behavior.  I would hope that SAME young person would send you a copy of the letter addressed to the editor and have YOU read this letter on your show, maybe identifying the school so that your audience can step in and apply pressure to the school officials.  Why am I for singling out the school?  Because it is MUCH easier to approach a public school dependent on tax revenue from the public than it is to educate stoopid parents who allow bullying to occur within their own home.<br />
  John, I hope it isnt another 5 years before I write to you again, but I wanted to tell you that I am so grateful that you are still producing your shows.  I am going to figure out how to contribute to your show by using the link you have on your site.  I&#8217;ve never done it before so we&#8217;ll see if an old guy (52 years old) can figure it out.  I wish you and Bruce many more years of happiness&#8230;Do you still have a cat named Chai (like the tea)?  I remember he wasnt doing so good around 5 years ago.  Your friend, Mike</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #395 Knowing Cathy by AngmohCathy</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/11/06/ongline-395-knowing-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60617</link>
		<dc:creator>AngmohCathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 20:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angmo bo kek-sim liau! (= not sad any more)
Thanks for the compliments....it&#039;s nice to shock people in that way....hehehe
Cathy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angmo bo kek-sim liau! (= not sad any more)<br />
Thanks for the compliments&#8230;.it&#8217;s nice to shock people in that way&#8230;.hehehe<br />
Cathy</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #394 Finding Cathy by AngmohCathy</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/10/30/ongline-394-finding-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60616</link>
		<dc:creator>AngmohCathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 20:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Many thanks for your kind comments and wishes. I was very happy to share my story for two reasons. One is to let people know that it is possible for one&#039;s inner self to remain mostly hidden until later in life, and the other is to encourage people to know that actually there isn&#039;t so much to be afraid of in transition, at least that is the case in the kind of environment I am lucky to find myself in here.  

My honest feeling is that the people who really care do come around to acceptance eventually, especially when they realise what a struggle it is to keep things on the inside.    

I finally went full-time about three weeks ago now, and it took some getting used to at first. My friends, family, and work colleagues have all been wonderful.

Thank you John for giving me a chance to tell all that!
 
Cathy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many thanks for your kind comments and wishes. I was very happy to share my story for two reasons. One is to let people know that it is possible for one&#8217;s inner self to remain mostly hidden until later in life, and the other is to encourage people to know that actually there isn&#8217;t so much to be afraid of in transition, at least that is the case in the kind of environment I am lucky to find myself in here.  </p>
<p>My honest feeling is that the people who really care do come around to acceptance eventually, especially when they realise what a struggle it is to keep things on the inside.    </p>
<p>I finally went full-time about three weeks ago now, and it took some getting used to at first. My friends, family, and work colleagues have all been wonderful.</p>
<p>Thank you John for giving me a chance to tell all that!</p>
<p>Cathy</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #395 Knowing Cathy by ikumajp</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/11/06/ongline-395-knowing-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60613</link>
		<dc:creator>ikumajp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 06:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG,
I knew angmo sound a bit sad last time but did realize/
It was a big bang for me.

By the way angmo looks great!!
I was shocked to see how pretty she is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG,<br />
I knew angmo sound a bit sad last time but did realize/<br />
It was a big bang for me.</p>
<p>By the way angmo looks great!!<br />
I was shocked to see how pretty she is.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #394 Finding Cathy by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/10/30/ongline-394-finding-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60602</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 03:40:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comment. I&#039;ll make sure that Cathy gets your sweet and supportive message. 
And thanks for taking the time to share your comment. 
I can&#039;t wait to post and share the second part of our conversation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comment. I&#8217;ll make sure that Cathy gets your sweet and supportive message.<br />
And thanks for taking the time to share your comment.<br />
I can&#8217;t wait to post and share the second part of our conversation.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #394 Finding Cathy by The Fey Driver</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/10/30/ongline-394-finding-cathy/comment-page-1/#comment-60599</link>
		<dc:creator>The Fey Driver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 16:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John (&amp; Cathy):

It is very generous of Cathy to share her story with us.  I appreciate her bravery at doing so.  It was very interesting to hear about the stages of discovery of her transgenderism.

Prior to hearing her story, it occurred to me that (typically) transgendered people often come to realize their transgenderism at a later stage in life, but hearing Cathy talk about the journey of self discovery and the various justifications she accepted throughout her life, I have a better understanding of the long process that can occur.

Thank you, Cathy, for sharing such an intimate part of your life with us.  I am anxious to hear the rest of the interview and I hope the rest of your transition is positive and allows you to live a happy and successful life as a woman.

The Fey Driver</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John (&amp; Cathy):</p>
<p>It is very generous of Cathy to share her story with us.  I appreciate her bravery at doing so.  It was very interesting to hear about the stages of discovery of her transgenderism.</p>
<p>Prior to hearing her story, it occurred to me that (typically) transgendered people often come to realize their transgenderism at a later stage in life, but hearing Cathy talk about the journey of self discovery and the various justifications she accepted throughout her life, I have a better understanding of the long process that can occur.</p>
<p>Thank you, Cathy, for sharing such an intimate part of your life with us.  I am anxious to hear the rest of the interview and I hope the rest of your transition is positive and allows you to live a happy and successful life as a woman.</p>
<p>The Fey Driver</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #393 Regurgitate Pride48 Vegas by greg b</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/10/02/ongline-393-regurgitate-pride48-vegas/comment-page-1/#comment-60563</link>
		<dc:creator>greg b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 00:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for letting us know how your trip went.  I had originally planned to go when it was first announced but for various reasons decided to visit a friend in NYC instead.  

Yes, it has been a while since we met.  And no, my house isn&#039;t IN the cemetery.  haha.  

I see that you and Bruce took a ride to Nowhere on the Midland Railway recently.  I was out there last year for the annual Maple Leaf Festival with some friends and made them ride with me.  lol

Still enjoying your podcast, catch you later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for letting us know how your trip went.  I had originally planned to go when it was first announced but for various reasons decided to visit a friend in NYC instead.  </p>
<p>Yes, it has been a while since we met.  And no, my house isn&#8217;t IN the cemetery.  haha.  </p>
<p>I see that you and Bruce took a ride to Nowhere on the Midland Railway recently.  I was out there last year for the annual Maple Leaf Festival with some friends and made them ride with me.  lol</p>
<p>Still enjoying your podcast, catch you later.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #393 Regurgitate Pride48 Vegas by TimInAlaska</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/10/02/ongline-393-regurgitate-pride48-vegas/comment-page-1/#comment-60550</link>
		<dc:creator>TimInAlaska</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 07:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW!  that dinner looks delicious</description>
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		<title>Comment on Rosie Vest Confession by poose</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/08/08/rosie-vest-confession/comment-page-1/#comment-60535</link>
		<dc:creator>poose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2011 05:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who axed about me? You know I have, like, NO DAMN LIFE WHATSOEVER! I&#039;m free almost all the time. I could practically die and no one would notice or care. //pity me// //sob story//

Le sigh...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who axed about me? You know I have, like, NO DAMN LIFE WHATSOEVER! I&#8217;m free almost all the time. I could practically die and no one would notice or care. //pity me// //sob story//</p>
<p>Le sigh&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #392 Walking Down the Strip by greg b</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/09/17/ongline-392-walking-down-the-strip/comment-page-1/#comment-60532</link>
		<dc:creator>greg b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 19:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hurray! Old school binaural podcast.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #387 Local Gays by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/24/ongline-387-local-gays/comment-page-1/#comment-60528</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 03:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your experience and stories.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your experience and stories.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rosie Vest Confession by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/08/08/rosie-vest-confession/comment-page-1/#comment-60527</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 03:17:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When can you come talk to me on my podcast? Someone asked about you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When can you come talk to me on my podcast? Someone asked about you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #387 Local Gays by Paul</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/24/ongline-387-local-gays/comment-page-1/#comment-60525</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 12:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Though some of us live out and proud - yes, even in Malaysia :) - there is still a sense of pervading fear despite the lack of actual physical violence since even the hint of homosexuality is usually greeted by the public with derision and scorn. Makes it doubly hard to come out of the closet. 

But we all try, slowly but surely. Most of my friends know - my family as well, and I&#039;m working towards telling my parents. My ever-present boyfriend should be tell-tale sign enough.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Though some of us live out and proud &#8211; yes, even in Malaysia <img src='http://onglinepodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &#8211; there is still a sense of pervading fear despite the lack of actual physical violence since even the hint of homosexuality is usually greeted by the public with derision and scorn. Makes it doubly hard to come out of the closet. </p>
<p>But we all try, slowly but surely. Most of my friends know &#8211; my family as well, and I&#8217;m working towards telling my parents. My ever-present boyfriend should be tell-tale sign enough.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rosie Vest Confession by poose</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/08/08/rosie-vest-confession/comment-page-1/#comment-60505</link>
		<dc:creator>poose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 04:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my word. If you get selected, grab a denim beret and some elastic waist jeans and go as Jerri Blank.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my word. If you get selected, grab a denim beret and some elastic waist jeans and go as Jerri Blank.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #388 Patrick and Seongman by Phong Hong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/31/ongline-388-patrick-and-seongman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60498</link>
		<dc:creator>Phong Hong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 08:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Patrick and Seongman, I wish all good things for both of you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patrick and Seongman, I wish all good things for both of you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #387 Local Gays by Phong Hong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/24/ongline-387-local-gays/comment-page-1/#comment-60497</link>
		<dc:creator>Phong Hong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 07:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I enjoyed this episode very much.  Not only are gays being misjudged and misunderstood in Malaysia-those of us non-gays who understand, empathize and accept gays are also being judged unfavorably.  Sometimes I get negative feedback for &quot;supporting&quot; this so called &quot;unnatural&quot; lifestyle.  I do try to explain to them that you do not choose to be gay-you just are and it is what God intended you to be.  There is no need for prejudice.  Thanks to all of you for sharing your story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed this episode very much.  Not only are gays being misjudged and misunderstood in Malaysia-those of us non-gays who understand, empathize and accept gays are also being judged unfavorably.  Sometimes I get negative feedback for &#8220;supporting&#8221; this so called &#8220;unnatural&#8221; lifestyle.  I do try to explain to them that you do not choose to be gay-you just are and it is what God intended you to be.  There is no need for prejudice.  Thanks to all of you for sharing your story.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rosie Vest Confession by greg b</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/08/08/rosie-vest-confession/comment-page-1/#comment-60495</link>
		<dc:creator>greg b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Aug 2011 01:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hope you get selected too!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #388 Patrick and Seongman by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/31/ongline-388-patrick-and-seongman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-60480</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 11:38:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Indeed. I was very greatful that they&#039;re willing to share their story. And thanks for listening Toppie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Indeed. I was very greatful that they&#8217;re willing to share their story. And thanks for listening Toppie.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #387 Local Gays by John Ong</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/24/ongline-387-local-gays/comment-page-1/#comment-60479</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 11:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Billy for sharing your thoughts about this show. I felt the same way. That&#039;s why I think it&#039;s important to share their stories.
Thanks for listening. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Billy for sharing your thoughts about this show. I felt the same way. That&#8217;s why I think it&#8217;s important to share their stories.<br />
Thanks for listening. <img src='http://onglinepodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Ongline #387 Local Gays by Billy C</title>
		<link>http://onglinepodcast.com/2011/07/24/ongline-387-local-gays/comment-page-1/#comment-60478</link>
		<dc:creator>Billy C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 07:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for this podcast episode - i&#039;m a gay malaysian in the UK. sometimes i take my  unrestricted lifestyle here for granted. listening to this episode made me go through some self reflection and appreciate how lucky i am as an individual being able to do a lot of things here my counterpart in malaysia may feel constrained and restricted back home.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for this podcast episode &#8211; i&#8217;m a gay malaysian in the UK. sometimes i take my  unrestricted lifestyle here for granted. listening to this episode made me go through some self reflection and appreciate how lucky i am as an individual being able to do a lot of things here my counterpart in malaysia may feel constrained and restricted back home.</p>
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