Voice Comment: (206) 888-JOHN
Show #218 | Duration: 42:55 | 19.8 MB | Mono |
Responding to some feedback messages I got from Show # 215 Loving the Elephant. Talk about how my low self esteem does to friendships. Cooking for your soul, because no one will be able to.
Links:
Remarkably Mark
Radio Peter
Windy City Queercast
Tranny Wreck
Ongline Podcast documents the life of a gay Malaysian-born Chinese American. Immerse yourself in the life of a not-so-typical individual. Expand your horizon by experiencing the topics, issues, stories, and simply, the life of a gay Asian man. Until now, the voice of a minority individual has not been this loud!
Subscribe to old shows using this feed:
Archerr commented:
1) I can, once again, totally relate to you on the fat thing. I call myself fat so that people know that I realize I’m fat. I don’t want them to think that I do realize I’m fat. I want to put the issue off so they won’t think I don’t know that I’m fat.
2) You are a very smart person. You have opinions on everything. You’ve heard my show. There are people who join the group shows but don’t say two words. The guests don’t have to chime in unless they want to. In the past you have brought great opinions to the group shows. Please don’t feel like you can’t join because you feel a certain way. I love having you on the show and would love for you to join in again sometime.
Love you and your show!!
Archerr
Feeding your soul?
John sometimes feeding your soul requires self-actualisation. Not everyone needs to feed their soul – it makes over-feeding bad coz you’ll end up with more self image issues if you are ill-prepared to make some sacrifices. The hardest think I guess is looking yourself in the mirror and being honest with what you ‘see’.
I think we should all live in moderation. My partner think that I am gorgeous because I have brown eyes that reminds him of a baby chimp. Maybe not as flattering to some but it works for me. We are speak a different language.
Life is a joyride!! Just remember to buckle up.
Hadi, thanks for the comments.
I think we all have different ways of “cooking for our souls”. To me, it means the process of getting yourself to the point where you can love yourself, taking care of yourself, “looking yoursef in the mirror and being honest with what you ‘see’.”
Feeding your soul doesn’t mean building your ego.
I’m not sure if that’s what you mean?
Trains!!! Gotta love ’em! One important thing about relationships is finding that wonderful comfort together when maybe you’re not really doing anything. Driving the car, walking, watching TV. Just being together . . . or even being apart and just knowing there’s a comfort there. . .an attraction that is beyond anything physical. The person we are isn’t the skin and flesh that hold us together. It’s the wonderful uniqueness that we share with others every day. You share with all of us all the time John. It’s a wonderful gift to us.
Lisa, I can’t agree more. The trip to Branson with Bruce, honestly, the most fun and enjoyable moments were our drive there. Just being with him. I so agree.