A Tale of my 12-year-old Wallet

by John Ong | Feb 2, 2009 | John Ong Living, Photo | 4 comments

Holy Wallet!

Twelve years ago, when I was still a student in the USA, I went back to Malaysia during my summer break. I also visited Mei Chi in Singapore, a friend that I know for the longest period of time (I guess I have to be careful using the world old). She was my neighbor. We started playing together when we were about four years old. We became good friends since then.

When I visited her in Singapore, she realized that I had an old and completely beat up wallet. The next day when I met her in front of Starbucks, she gave me this Esprit wallet. I was very touched. I took great care of it. It has never been on my butt. My beat-up wallet was molded into the shape of my right butt cheek. So, when I started using this one, I decided not to ever put my wallet in my back pocket.

Last few months, I observed some obvious tears and ripped seams on the wallet. Yesterday, I finally went out and bought a cheap Wal-mart wallet to replace this one. (I don’t usually shop at Wal-mart. I had a $50 gift card that I needed use up before it expired. The wallet was only $12.48. Made in India. I hope not child labor)

It was hard to part with this old wallet. But I’m also glad that my belongings won’t fall out from it. The wallet was easily replaceable. But the story behind the wallet will never ?Ǭ†be replaceable.?Ǭ†

I am keeping the wallet for now. I’m sentimental like that. It reminds me of my good friend Mei Chi. I just can’t chuck that out.

I hope by writing down my thoughts about this wallet, and by taking some photos of it would allow me to share with everyone how special this wallet has been to me. It really doesn’t matter which wallet I’m using, Mei Chi will always be my oldest friend. 🙂

4 Comments

  1. Mei Chi

    My dear, you are making me cry after reading this. Gosh…12 years and this wallet has lasted for a good 12 years. This is amazing. It doesn’t matter if you have replaced the wallet. It is the thought that count that matters most. Your ‘old’ friend.

  2. John Ong

    Thanks for the wallet. Thanks for the friendship. 🙂

  3. Scotty

    ha ha.
    kamu lucu, dan gila!
    mungkin dompet anda mati karena kamu = GEMUK?!

    😉
    Maaf John. Kamu tahu saya senda gurau.
    😡

    saya SUKA podcast anda.

  4. Yuki Choe

    I used to have a wallet that has been with me for the duration I tried to de-trans myself, that is about a period of 8 years. I have no opportunity to keep it now that I am out as who I am again. Because on the last year I got robbed. I miss it badly because it has always been there, faithfully right at my back pocket. :- (

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